Post by bessiehudson on Jun 18, 2014 7:12:44 GMT -5
Before your first date
1. First rule is the golden rule: Choose your online dating site carefully
2. Be patient! Don't go too fast, take your time!
3. Do your research! Read more about online dating and learn from them
4. Learn to stay clear of married man/woman
5. Be honest but stay anonymous
6. Use a nickname and don't associate yourself with words such as sexy, handsome, pretty etc.
7. Don't give out personal details
8. Create a free email address for online dating purposes only
9. Get another cell phone number if phone calls are to be made
10. Use webcam if you want to, but don't go too far (you know what I mean!)
On your First Date
11. Dress conservatively
12. Never go on your first date alone! And always go somewhere public!
13. Let your family members know where you and your friend are
14. Stay away from alcohol, and look after your drinks
15. Keep an eye on your valuable items such as cell phone etc.
16. Use your own mode of transport
17. When you are on your way home, make sure that no one is following you
After your first date
18. Once again, take your time. Don't make any conclusions based on first impression only
19. Stop any communication if you suspect something
20. If everything goes well, then good luck. Stay vigilant though.
21. Make sure that he/she knows you just as much as you know him/her
22. Listen to your friend's opinions which can be very helpful
There are way too many different scenarios in the online dating world so the precautions are endless! But if you know how to be safe in the initial stage of online dating, then it won't get you into any deep trouble! Here is a safe site for Online Dating in South Africa
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